Zuzana (37): I'm pregnant.My husband does not perceive me and my needs

I couldn't get pregnant

I have longed for a child for several years.My husband and I tried for a long time, but it still didn't work.We had no health problem, but we did not like luck.As I got older, I didn't even believe that we would do it naturally.

I stopped clamping so much on the baby and we started to live a normal life with Standa.I ended with counting fertile and infertile days, positioning after sex and I do not have so much on the quality of standing sperm and my eggs.No special vitamins, diet and alcohol abstinence.We just live and eat like everyone else.To my big surprise, I got pregnant in the next six months after this change.It was a beautiful feeling.

Anna (52): Sometimes I doubt if my husband still likes me.Does not perceive eternally

Anna and Pavel have a long -term marriage.But Anna begins…

When only one tries one

I enjoyed my pregnancy very much.I liked to go shopping for myself and baby.I looked for children's rooms and accessories that could come in handy.Standa was also happy, at least at the beginning it seemed to me.As the weeks ran, I began to feel that my husband did not perceive me at all.

I noticed it for the first time in about the twelfth week.I wanted to deal with Standa what a baby room might look like, and he made me.That we have the time to solve it, that I will not solve anything now, so that I can endure.When I tried it about three weeks later, I came across my husband's lack of interest.I understood that the theme of the children's room in our country will probably be taboo.

Šárka (49): The daughter shocked us.She admitted she lives in a polyamorial relationship

Šárka and her husband cannot compare that her daughter has a polyamorous…

When a man ignores you

The first inspections at the doctor were about a month.Standa wasn't at all interested in when I had checks, and he didn't even think of accompanying me.Even at a large ultrasonic check with a specialized doctor, I was alone.After every check I told him what was new, but I felt that he didn't see me at all.

I wanted to talk to him if we let the sex of the baby say, but he didn't care.So I kept my own daughter for myself.I felt that my husband had stopped my pregnancy with me and communicated to our child completely.All the debate on this topic was completely unnecessary.

Jitka (38): I'm not a lesbian but a relationship with a woman is probably my only way out

I live in a shared apartment, I'm single and no apartment, career or man…

As I got into a more advanced stage of pregnancy, there were health problems.I was still heartburn, I had hemorrhoids and varicose veins, and I don't even talk about back pain.My husband had to see that something was wrong, that I had pain and some restrictions.However, I did not feel any support and concern.I knew he didn't see me and he didn't care.

At that time we stopped making love.We didn't talk about my health problems, but he didn't want me as a lover.His lack of interest and constant rejection led me to different thoughts - he doesn't want me anymore, he's not happy with me anymore.When he talked about other women, I thought he would prefer to exchange me.

Anna (58): I found my love in my childhood.But the death took him

Anna was lucky to meet her love of life in her childhood.

How to talk to a partner who doesn't want to speak?

It was a difficult time when my husband was not able to talk about pregnancy.Otherwise, we communicated and lived normally.I didn't feel any change here.My husband did not perceive my pregnancy, our child and my needs.Everyone around me was interested in how I was doing and what bothers me, just Standa not.I was very worried about it.I think it should be my husband and father of my child who will care most.

The birth is slow and I am afraid to solve my husband if he will accompany me.I would really want him at birth, but I'm not sure at all.If he doesn't perceive my needs now, will he not be a nuisance?Will he perceive me at least there and help me?I don't have the courage to talk to him about it.

Marcela (45): The daughter is a copy of my mother -in

Marcela's daughter is incredibly similar to her grandmother, mother -in -law Marcely…

We do not even have solved names, and I have about five weeks left.Actually, I don't even know if he is looking forward to the child and wants him.Overall, I am terribly disappointed with Standa and I do not understand what happened to him.We never solved anything like this.This is the first time that he does not perceive me at all and he is something that is concerned about both of us.